Am I a wimp for being scared of a girl?

One of my cousins was fighting with her little brother. I tried to pull her off of him, and she turned on me. She got in my face and was like, "come o

One of my cousins was fighting with her little brother. I tried to pull her off of him, and she turned on me. She got in my face and was like, "come on... let's fight." She had me backed up against a bed, and then totally made me look like a punk by pushing me down onto the bed and standing over me saying "come on, get up, are you afraid to fight a girl." I got up and she pushed me down again and kept egging me on "come on, get up, let's fight." I just kept saying I wouldn't fight her. She finally slapped me in the face and left me alone. We're both 15. I know sometimes younger kids get beaten up by girls, but I was surprised that a girl thought she could beat up a 15 yo guy.

a) Why would a girl think she could beat up a guy? I'm kindof a nerd - do you think that might be why?
b) Do you think my cousin really could beat me up? What makes you think so?
c) Am I a wimp for being scared of a girl? (She is really tough - probs one of the 5 toughest girls in our school - no one messes with her)

or:One of my cousins was fighting with her little brother. I tried to pull her off of him, and she turned on me. She got in my face and was like, \"come on... let's fight.\" She had me backed up against a bed, and then totally made me look like a punk by pushing me down onto the bed and standing over me saying \"come on, get up, are you afraid to fight a girl.\" I got up and she pushed me down again and kept egging me on \"come on, get up, let's fight.\" I just kept saying I wouldn't fight her. She finally slapped me in the face and left me alone. We're both 15. I know sometimes younger kids get beaten up by girls, but I was surprised that a girl thought she could beat up a 15 yo guy. a) Why would a girl think she could beat up a guy? I'm kindof a nerd - do you think that might be why? b) Do you think my cousin really could beat me up? What makes you think so? c) Am I a wimp for being scared of a girl? (She is really tough - probs one of the 5 toughest girls in our school - no one messes with her)


or:No your not a wimp. Your cousin is obviously intimidating and you probably would get scared if she was getting in your face and picking a fight with you. I wouldn't really know if your cousin could beat you up. and a girl thinks she can beat up a guy maybe because she feels controlling, or past experiences makes her feel vulnerable. dont worry, this is normal to feel that way if shes tough and intimidating.


or:a.) she probably has some sort of anger issue and just wants to let her anger out by hitting someone. Honestley the guy code is never hit a girl....so dont...that doesnt meen be scared..Just say \"lay off\" or \"leave me alone\".

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