How do I solve this bullying problem?
Im a 17 years old girl and Im ugly n overweight. Have been all my life Ive been picked on because of it. When I was in elementary school I was laughed
I'm a 17 years old girl and I'm ugly n overweight. Have been all my life I've been picked on because of it. When I was in elementary school I was laughed and picked on, just because I wasn't skinny. I remember one day I threw up (bad hotdogs) and everyone laughed at me instead of helping me so I cried with puke all over me. When I was in middle guys use to act like they smelled something when I walked by. One guy even went as far as calling me a fat ass pig. So I decided to starve myself for 4 months. I used to be 280. But afterwards I was 129. They still called me fat and they even said I looked better fat because now I was just ugly.
So now I've been gaining thee eight back and everything.
I honestly think that I am ugly since I never had a boyfriend or had a true friend.
I just can't take all this abuse anymore I'm tired of being nice I just want to be loved
or:I'm a 17 years old girl and I'm ugly n overweight. Have been all my life I've been picked on because of it. When I was in elementary school I was laughed and picked on, just because I wasn't skinny. I remember one day I threw up (bad hotdogs) and everyone laughed at me instead of helping me so I cried with puke all over me. When I was in middle guys use to act like they smelled something when I walked by. One guy even went as far as calling me a fat ass pig. So I decided to starve myself for 4 months. I used to be 280. But afterwards I was 129. They still called me fat and they even said I looked better fat because now I was just ugly. So now I've been gaining thee eight back and everything. I honestly think that I am ugly since I never had a boyfriend or had a true friend. I just can't take all this abuse anymore I'm tired of being nice I just want to be loved
or:Sweetheart you sound like a sweet beautiful person to me. Those other kids are low lifes and they WILL get whats coming to them one day. But for now be the better person (like u already are) and dobt worry about them. As for the weight problem, hunny never starve yourself ok just ration proportions out correctly. I'm sorry to hest about this! They have no right! And I bet that they have just ruined your confidence or ego. But you are beautiful no matter what they may think or say ov you! Never let things get too bad ok, reach out for help. And I guarantee you are loved. :) try and love life baby girl because you have yet to get to live it and things will eventually get progressively better. God bless
or:Or you can make over yourself like new clothes,make up and hairstyle.Eat regularly cause if you starve your self you going to start wanting high calorie stuff but change what you eat.And excercise daily too.
or:Ignore them. Those guys are just trying to get some crying on you. Don't let that bother you and just move on. Don't starve yourself for 4 months! You're committing suicide for yourself. You need to talk to your parents about this. Ask them for helpful and useful tips. They're the ones that can talk to the other people that are laughing at you. Here's some quotes about strength that my parents always tell me:Be sure you put your feet in the right place, then stand firm.We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.Just tell those 2 quotes to yourself and no matter what other people think of you, just make sure that you tell yourself that you're beautiful.You ARE beautiful. Those other people are being jerks, don't let them hurt you. Tell someone about how you feel. Ask your parents. Please, please PLEASE. I hope these tips help you! ;)
or:Sorry, dudette!
or:You go up to the person and punch the shit out of them. I know they say that violence isnt the answer but sometimes when nothing else works its last resort. Now im not saying go do anything crazy but next time some one says something bad to you then either tell them off or hit them.
or:Hi! I understand you completely. I went through a lot in school too. At Jw.org you can research \"Bullying\" as well as \"True friends\"... Hope this helps!A favorite quote I once read was this....(Was a quote on my high school wall) well, I dont remember it exactly.... But went something like:\"Today the people you think matter will not matter tomorrow.\" Why? Usually after high school we all go our seperate ways and we no longer associate with the bullies.
