Advice on what vibe I'm getting on someone?

So i have this friend that I met through the internet, weve talked a lot, and had a few video chats as well- so i know at least theyre a real person.

So i have this friend that I met through the internet, we've talked a lot, and had a few video chats as well- so i know at least they're a real person. But, for the past few weeks I've been getting a weird vibe from them and I am not sure if its just me over thinking things, or if I am subconsciously picking up on things.

So the thing is, at the end of February they're coming down from another state to where I am from. We plan to go to a theme park for a few days, then just kinda chill. And shes talked about 'playing' a little bit, which... I thought I was OK with but something feels weird?(Now were both adult females, me being 20, and them being 28. But I'm inexperienced and ace.) But, for the past few weeks things have been pretty weird, and I'm not sure how to explain things. When we first met a few months ago we talked quite a bit everyday and it continued for months as well. Recently things have gotten a bit quieter, and while I understand that sometimes people don't want to talk/have the energy to etc, that's not really the vibe I've gotten. Its like something is off, and its sending my anxiety into overdrive. She kinda just brushes off questions I have about things.

I am not really sure what to do here. Is she playing with me? Am I over thinking things? Should I have more details in this? Because I honestly don't know really how to word things, but I'll give it a shot. I really would like some outsiders opinions on this...

or:So i have this friend that I met through the internet, we've talked a lot, and had a few video chats as well- so i know at least they're a real person. But, for the past few weeks I've been getting a weird vibe from them and I am not sure if its just me over thinking things, or if I am subconsciously picking up on things.So the thing is, at the end of February they're coming down from another state to where I am from. We plan to go to a theme park for a few days, then just kinda chill. And shes talked about 'playing' a little bit, which... I thought I was OK with but something feels weird?(Now were both adult females, me being 20, and them being 28. But I'm inexperienced and ace.) But, for the past few weeks things have been pretty weird, and I'm not sure how to explain things. When we first met a few months ago we talked quite a bit everyday and it continued for months as well. Recently things have gotten a bit quieter, and while I understand that sometimes people don't want to talk/have the energy to etc, that's not really the vibe I've gotten. Its like something is off, and its sending my anxiety into overdrive. She kinda just brushes off questions I have about things.I am not really sure what to do here. Is she playing with me? Am I over thinking things? Should I have more details in this? Because I honestly don't know really how to word things, but I'll give it a shot. I really would like some outsiders opinions on this...

or:INSUFFICIENT DATA FOR MEANINGFUL ANSWER.Were you explicit in rejecting her advances? If so, she might see naught coming out of this relationship, which further expedites the natural distancing, already unbound in the case of long distance. She might have found someone who has piqued her interest more. Or has a tough time at work.You haven't stated how long you've known each other, so there isn't even a semblance of a hint with which to estimate the cause, as mentioned.As for what you should do, that's hardly contingent on her intentions; what do you want to do? What actions do you think you could take to get there?

or:maybe she's bored.

or:You should ask here, sometimes things get boring over time and when she had spent time with you personally not just online, that will be the time where you will see if she is really into you if she hasn't changed anything and become more clingy.

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