Am I Really The Problem?

For years now, I have been bullied. Not a laughing matter, but Im use to it. Yet sometimes Im not. Usually how it ends up being is that my counselor t

For years now, I have been bullied. Not a laughing matter, but I'm use to it. Yet sometimes I'm not. Usually how it ends up being is that my counselor tells me "I'm the one starting it" or "I'm making myself the victim" when it comes to bullying. I don't believe it, but maybe that's just me.

So today, a new thing happened with my teacher. I "think" I love her and we are friends, but I felt like what she did was considered bullying. I came into class, and we rarely use calculators (Physics). I thought I forgot my calculator, so she yelled at her. I'm a sensitive person, especially when it comes to people I care about. BUT I fortunately found my calculator in my purse... She ends up yelling at me more. Which make me cry (I couldn't of been any more embarrassed). Then she told me "You better not cry, or I'm going to make fun of you". From a friend of mine that goes her class the next our, she told me my teacher openly told the class what happened. Which extremely angered and embarrassed me.

I feel like if I go to the counselor, the same stuff is going to happen all over again where I'M THE ONE RESPONSIBLE. Yes, i understand I should've remembered, but I DID have it with me.

Should i tell the counselor? Confront the teacher? Ignore it?

or:For years now, I have been bullied. Not a laughing matter, but I'm use to it. Yet sometimes I'm not. Usually how it ends up being is that my counselor tells me \"I'm the one starting it\" or \"I'm making myself the victim\" when it comes to bullying. I don't believe it, but maybe that's just me.So today, a new thing happened with my teacher. I \"think\" I love her and we are friends, but I felt like what she did was considered bullying. I came into class, and we rarely use calculators (Physics). I thought I forgot my calculator, so she yelled at her. I'm a sensitive person, especially when it comes to people I care about. BUT I fortunately found my calculator in my purse... She ends up yelling at me more. Which make me cry (I couldn't of been any more embarrassed). Then she told me \"You better not cry, or I'm going to make fun of you\". From a friend of mine that goes her class the next our, she told me my teacher openly told the class what happened. Which extremely angered and embarrassed me.I feel like if I go to the counselor, the same stuff is going to happen all over again where I'M THE ONE RESPONSIBLE. Yes, i understand I should've remembered, but I DID have it with me.Should i tell the counselor? Confront the teacher? Ignore it?

or:Well. teachers have a way of sticking together, so confrontation would be a waste of time if you do it alone. Ignoring it won't do any good either. It shows the teacher that they can get away with this. Tell your parents or somebody. They'll hopefully back you up. Good luck. Hope this helps.

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