Am I Rushing It?
Yeah so my boyfriend and I have been going out for about 2 months now, and we are very intimate. But I make most of the sexual advances... Like I woul
Yeah so my boyfriend and I have been going out for about 2 months now, and we are very intimate. But I make most of the sexual advances... Like I would start things off most of the time. Between us, we're comfortable with how we are right now, but my dad says different. He wants me to go slowly, and that the relationship should progress in stages, and If I cross any lines then he's gonna leave me to fall in to a pit hole, so to speak. Now that my sister's told him about some condoms I have (which I showed my boyfriend), my dad now doesn't believe me on this, and we're not seeing eye to eye, plus he's kinda left me already. He wants me to do things his way, but I don't entirely agree. And If I was to carry on the way I am, I'll lose him when I need him most. But what do you think? Am I Rushing It?
or:Yeah so my boyfriend and I have been going out for about 2 months now, and we are very intimate. But I make most of the sexual advances... Like I would start things off most of the time. Between us, we're comfortable with how we are right now, but my dad says different. He wants me to go slowly, and that the relationship should progress in stages, and If I cross any lines then he's gonna leave me to fall in to a pit hole, so to speak. Now that my sister's told him about some condoms I have (which I showed my boyfriend), my dad now doesn't believe me on this, and we're not seeing eye to eye, plus he's kinda left me already. He wants me to do things his way, but I don't entirely agree. And If I was to carry on the way I am, I'll lose him when I need him most. But what do you think? Am I Rushing It?
or:its just been 2 months.. wait for some time. listen to your dad he knows more than you. i think you should slow thing a lil bit :)
or:he's right. but when you and the boy both feel ready, do as you please ;)
or:I was in the same situation. I had to make all the moves and I just said screw it and I backed off quite a bit. He then realized that he didn't want to lose me and started to respond and even initiate moves more. He realized that he needed me. That's what your boy needs to realize on his own. So, give him some thinking space. He's probably whatever on this subject of intimacy. Ask him what he would like to do. Hope I helped(:
