Cheated.. Should I tell?
My and my boyfriend have been together almost 3 years we dont live in the same town and we dont go to the same school he lives 40 minutes away. About
My and my boyfriend have been together almost 3 years we don't live in the same town and we don't go to the same school he lives 40 minutes away. About 5 months ago me and a guy that lives where I live were talking he goes to college that is 3 hours away from where I live and only comes to town on the weekends anyways he asked if we could hang out and I ended up cheating on my bf with him. It was a mistake and I feel awfully guilty everyday when I wake up when I Go to sleep I know I deserve it and much more. I just don't know wether I should come clean or just keep quiet my Bf has he's done so much for me and it hurts knowing what I did to him. but I rather keep him happy than me ruining it on one mistake I will never repeat again. I do regret it and wish I could go back in time and not do it. please no rude comments I know I messed up. I just want your opinions. thank you
or:My and my boyfriend have been together almost 3 years we don't live in the same town and we don't go to the same school he lives 40 minutes away. About 5 months ago me and a guy that lives where I live were talking he goes to college that is 3 hours away from where I live and only comes to town on the weekends anyways he asked if we could hang out and I ended up cheating on my bf with him. It was a mistake and I feel awfully guilty everyday when I wake up when I Go to sleep I know I deserve it and much more. I just don't know wether I should come clean or just keep quiet my Bf has he's done so much for me and it hurts knowing what I did to him. but I rather keep him happy than me ruining it on one mistake I will never repeat again. I do regret it and wish I could go back in time and not do it. please no rude comments I know I messed up. I just want your opinions. thank you
or:That is totally up to you, if the guilt is bothering you then you should tell him but it could end the relationship. If you think you can live with it and know it was a one time mistake then don't tell him because telling him could ruin his trust for you and make everything go wrong. I cheated on my husband once when we had some issues and now I know I love him and that made it clearer to me and I will never do it again and I decided to not tell anyone that it happened. It was a year ago and the guilt went away and I know if I told him he would leave me and we have two kids and a 5 yr marriage i dont want to ruin.
or:Well you will always feel guilty after, less if you tell him, but them biggest part of this is to recognize your mistake which you did, then forgive yourself. It doesn't matter how much others forgive you if you don't forgive yourself the guilt will always be there
or:But are you sure that your boyfriend never cheat behind your back? You can know it with a spy software like 1TopSpy. It works by tracking and monitoring all activity in the background of his phone such as: track GPS location, spy on text messages, web history, images, calls logs and spy call recording, spy on Whatsapp, Viber, Facebook messages, Snapchat, Line, BBM messages. It's my opinion.
