Dating - I'm really confused and in desperate need of help!!?
So im in college and ive never had a boyfriend before..i always thought that im self sufficient that i do not need anyone to complete me and stuff lik
So i'm in college and i've never had a boyfriend before..i always thought that i'm self sufficient that i do not need anyone to complete me and stuff like that so i ignored every guy even if i liked them and they usually try their best to get my attention..but this time it's really different when i first saw him at college of course i ignored him like the rest of them and i know i really like him but i've showed him that his presence really annoy me without saying a word to him so nw he's ignoring me too but he still shows me that he likes me by getting so jealous of all these guys around me (friends) or by showing me that he's the boss and the best thing is that he ignores every other girl. he never looks at others the way he looks at me .. this look that says you're mine .and these things are really nice and i love them but i still show him every time he's around me that he's annoying and i think it's because i'm affraid since it's the first time that i feel really vulnerable and that i want him really bad and i know that it's my fault that he can never approach me and talk even though we always sit in the same group of people since i've closed on him every door he tried to open and now i think i've started to fall in love with him and i'm so affraid that it's too late for me to set things right and i really do not think that i can be the one that tries to open up a conversation first so what should i do? maybe when i get to know him i'll stop liking him i don't know but for now i feel like i do not want to lose him! Plz help and thank you!!
or:So i'm in college and i've never had a boyfriend before..i always thought that i'm self sufficient that i do not need anyone to complete me and stuff like that so i ignored every guy even if i liked them and they usually try their best to get my attention..but this time it's really different when i first saw him at college of course i ignored him like the rest of them and i know i really like him but i've showed him that his presence really annoy me without saying a word to him so nw he's ignoring me too but he still shows me that he likes me by getting so jealous of all these guys around me (friends) or by showing me that he's the boss and the best thing is that he ignores every other girl. he never looks at others the way he looks at me .. this look that says you're mine .and these things are really nice and i love them but i still show him every time he's around me that he's annoying and i think it's because i'm affraid since it's the first time that i feel really vulnerable and that i want him really bad and i know that it's my fault that he can never approach me and talk even though we always sit in the same group of people since i've closed on him every door he tried to open and now i think i've started to fall in love with him and i'm so affraid that it's too late for me to set things right and i really do not think that i can be the one that tries to open up a conversation first so what should i do? maybe when i get to know him i'll stop liking him i don't know but for now i feel like i do not want to lose him! Plz help and thank you!!
or:well i would start a conversation with him it can't hurt and you can show interest in him gradually if you want it would help him want to have a conversation with you as well he wants to know like you do that one may show interest in being friendly and step into the relationship slowly this will set the stage for a more friendly life style
