Ex-girlfriend and I were together for 1 year and 8 months.We had trust issues in the past, but were?
... able to resolve them. Finally, I had a hard time believing one of her stories, when she really was telling the truth, and she had enough and brok
... able to resolve them. Finally, I had a hard time believing one of her stories, when she really was telling the truth, and she had enough and broke up the relationship. Those two weeks that have passed, I was working hard to win her heart back. Finally I did. Then I found out she had sex in a one nighter that same week we broke up. He then tells her that he cheated on his girlfriend with her. So my ex feels used big time and ashamed. I tell her about what I found out and she pleads to take her back. She was crying for hours, feeling ashamed and disgusted of herself and calling herself "stupid". She now realzes how good of a guy I was to her. I told her I won you're heart back, so you should try and do the same. She said she will do whatever it takes to get us back together. So far I'm enjoying the time shes putting in for me, but when she kissed me, I didn't feel the same. I like how our "friendship" relationship is turnng out, because we are "starting over" and leaving everything in the past. I would love to be apart of her life again but now I just don't think I could possibly have sex with her again. Time heals everything so It might take awhile to get over her one nght stand, but I know there cannot be a relationship without sex. What should I do?
Do you think it's really worth getting back together?
Will I ever get over her having sex with somebody else? (We were both virgins when we met)
Please give me advice guys
or:... able to resolve them. Finally, I had a hard time believing one of her stories, when she really was telling the truth, and she had enough and broke up the relationship. Those two weeks that have passed, I was working hard to win her heart back. Finally I did. Then I found out she had sex in a one nighter that same week we broke up. He then tells her that he cheated on his girlfriend with her. So my ex feels used big time and ashamed. I tell her about what I found out and she pleads to take her back. She was crying for hours, feeling ashamed and disgusted of herself and calling herself \"stupid\". She now realzes how good of a guy I was to her. I told her I won you're heart back, so you should try and do the same. She said she will do whatever it takes to get us back together. So far I'm enjoying the time shes putting in for me, but when she kissed me, I didn't feel the same. I like how our \"friendship\" relationship is turnng out, because we are \"starting over\" and leaving everything in the past. I would love to be apart of her life again but now I just don't think I could possibly have sex with her again. Time heals everything so It might take awhile to get over her one nght stand, but I know there cannot be a relationship without sex. What should I do? Do you think it's really worth getting back together? Will I ever get over her having sex with somebody else? (We were both virgins when we met)Please give me advice guys
or:I know how she feels. take it easy on her she already feels bad enough. you don't need sex until your both read. a one night stand means nothing. but it probably did to her and then finding out he used her would hurt really bad. you should be there for her. if she had sex with more than one other person I think that would be a good reason to be so worked up over but other than that just try to ignore and forget it. she would most likely do the same for you.
