Guys - He didn't cheat, but he hooked up with an awful girl while in the midst of pursuing me?
I met my boyfriend this last summer. Before we actually dated, I was struggling a bit with how I felt about him, but the whole time he was without a d
I met my boyfriend this last summer. Before we actually dated, I was struggling a bit with how I felt about him, but the whole time he was without a doubt enamored by me. He is really a good guy, and I know he cares a lot about me. However, the other day from a mutual friend, he sort of let out some information about a girl my boyfriend hooked-up with over the summer (which means we weren't dating yet). But, it was during the time he really really liked me, which is something I can't understand. I've never been in such a situation before. I reallllllllly didn't like this girl too, and she has STDs. After finding this out, I felt so sick and occasionally still do. Im trying really hard to get over this, but its so hard.
I can reason with myself and know it was really nothing, but why can't I get over it!!??? I hate feeling sick about it
or:I met my boyfriend this last summer. Before we actually dated, I was struggling a bit with how I felt about him, but the whole time he was without a doubt enamored by me. He is really a good guy, and I know he cares a lot about me. However, the other day from a mutual friend, he sort of let out some information about a girl my boyfriend hooked-up with over the summer (which means we weren't dating yet). But, it was during the time he really really liked me, which is something I can't understand. I've never been in such a situation before. I reallllllllly didn't like this girl too, and she has STDs. After finding this out, I felt so sick and occasionally still do. Im trying really hard to get over this, but its so hard.I can reason with myself and know it was really nothing, but why can't I get over it!!??? I hate feeling sick about it
or:It's probably because she is disgusting just not the type you would get involved with did he have a personal relationship with her that you know of I would want him to get tested for STDs or maybe there's no sign of any.What is his excuse?if there is no reason to believe that they slept together it's probably just the fact of knowing that it occurred.the reason that you can't get over it is because she is known to have STDs
or:I really don't see the big deal in this. There is no commitment when you're not in a relationship. Just because you like someone doesn't mean you're going to end up dating them, you said yourself that you were taking time to know how you felt before you dated. You easily could have decided no. If he is dating you now, there is no reason to bring up a past fling from before you two even began dating. When you're not in a relationship it's fine to talk with multiple people and see who your compatible with, if you decide someone is worth dating and they feel the same towards you, then keep it exclusive.
