Help! Is she interested in me? Why does she want to send me home every time when is out of the way?
Firstly, thanks for reading ! I am a girl and recently I got to know this girl whom I thought was quite cute. We didnt really talked at first and she
Firstly, thanks for reading !
I am a girl and recently I got to know this girl whom I thought was quite cute. We didn't really talked at first and she is not a what's app person so she seldom replies ( I knew this from our common friends). I sorta had a feeling that she is a lesbian or somewhat, and later on I confirmed it through something that she wrote. I presume she is attached too, as she wore a ring on her fourth finger, so I didn't really probe much into it cos we are not even close to start with.
She has very strong attention to the details in making sure I was comfortable. One day she texted me randomly and we started talking a short while, getting to know each other. She told me we could hang out soon, just the two of us and that she could send me home the nxt time we had discussions with the others.
When we had our group discussions with the rest, she told me she could send me home, but I told her that it's alright since it is out of the way. our houses are on two opposite directions and it was nearer to go straight to her house as it was perhaps a 10 minute drive as compared to mine which was 15-20 min drive.
So she insisted on sending me home and the next time she did not make it but told me sorry, cos she wanted to send me home but could not make it to that discussion.
So I am confused, is she wanting to be just friends or is she interested in me ? Just want to hear some of your thoughts cos I thought its rather unusual? Like I wouldn't send someone out of the way home unless she is a lil kid, but I am in my 20s already.
Appreciate your time to read this. Thanks . :)
or:Firstly, thanks for reading ! I am a girl and recently I got to know this girl whom I thought was quite cute. We didn't really talked at first and she is not a what's app person so she seldom replies ( I knew this from our common friends). I sorta had a feeling that she is a lesbian or somewhat, and later on I confirmed it through something that she wrote. I presume she is attached too, as she wore a ring on her fourth finger, so I didn't really probe much into it cos we are not even close to start with.She has very strong attention to the details in making sure I was comfortable. One day she texted me randomly and we started talking a short while, getting to know each other. She told me we could hang out soon, just the two of us and that she could send me home the nxt time we had discussions with the others.When we had our group discussions with the rest, she told me she could send me home, but I told her that it's alright since it is out of the way. our houses are on two opposite directions and it was nearer to go straight to her house as it was perhaps a 10 minute drive as compared to mine which was 15-20 min drive.So she insisted on sending me home and the next time she did not make it but told me sorry, cos she wanted to send me home but could not make it to that discussion.So I am confused, is she wanting to be just friends or is she interested in me ? Just want to hear some of your thoughts cos I thought its rather unusual? Like I wouldn't send someone out of the way home unless she is a lil kid, but I am in my 20s already.Appreciate your time to read this. Thanks . :)
or:Okay... this is harder. I think she may be interested in you, so that's not good. But a way toget out of that is to tell her that she is a great friend. Emphasis on FRIEND. Don't go to a movie that might seems like a date, because if she \"likes\" you she might \"make her move\". See if you can get a fake boyfriend. This would work because she would know (if she is lesbian) that you are not interested and that you have your own boyfriend. Try to ignore her, but not in a mean way. If all else fails, change your name, number, dye your hair red then move to a different country. ;) Hope these work!
