How do I deal with an overprotective father when I am 30 years old? Please help me!! Im desperate!?
I am a 30 year old woman, divorced. I have always had an overprotective father and its driving me crazy now! I cant have friends cause he gets mad if
I am a 30 year old woman, divorced. I have always had an overprotective father and its driving me crazy now! I cant have friends cause he gets mad if i talk to any man or woman. Specially man but now even with females. Saying this he wont "allow me" to go anywhere ,not even the corner store, alone. I have made mistakes in the past, but i thought in life it was normal to make mistakes. I have learned from them!! I have been divorced for almost 5 years and wanted to start looking for love again and as i live with my father cause i have no other option at the moment, i cant! He is always upset about everything, i mean in his life,my mother, the rest of my family, his business... Everything! So he tends to be mad or just in a bad mood all the time and as my job is in his business, i get to be his punching bag every day. I have to listen to him rant about the worlds issues and i have no one to go to. My stress levels are off the roof! I cant sleep anymore and i feel so desperate! I love him to pieces don't get me wrong, but he really is making me feel like I'm stupid or just not capable of doing anything.
Please help me! I need advice! I have no one! Not even my own family, they are very selfish in that way.
I need to breathe!! Please please help me! What do i do? Ive tried talking to him but he gets upset and starts yelling at me and remind me of my past mistakes.
I can't literally have a chat with him with out him getting angry! He is a very explosive person and yells and says horrible things!
Hope u can help me!
Thanks
or:I am a 30 year old woman, divorced. I have always had an overprotective father and its driving me crazy now! I cant have friends cause he gets mad if i talk to any man or woman. Specially man but now even with females. Saying this he wont \"allow me\" to go anywhere ,not even the corner store, alone. I have made mistakes in the past, but i thought in life it was normal to make mistakes. I have learned from them!! I have been divorced for almost 5 years and wanted to start looking for love again and as i live with my father cause i have no other option at the moment, i cant! He is always upset about everything, i mean in his life,my mother, the rest of my family, his business... Everything! So he tends to be mad or just in a bad mood all the time and as my job is in his business, i get to be his punching bag every day. I have to listen to him rant about the worlds issues and i have no one to go to. My stress levels are off the roof! I cant sleep anymore and i feel so desperate! I love him to pieces don't get me wrong, but he really is making me feel like I'm stupid or just not capable of doing anything. Please help me! I need advice! I have no one! Not even my own family, they are very selfish in that way. I need to breathe!! Please please help me! What do i do? Ive tried talking to him but he gets upset and starts yelling at me and remind me of my past mistakes. I can't literally have a chat with him with out him getting angry! He is a very explosive person and yells and says horrible things! Hope u can help me!Thanks
or:Yeah your 30 and you can do whatever you want
