How do I get to know a girl better if I don't see her often?
Im in College and theres this girl Im becoming attracted to. Ive seen her around the past couple of semesters because we take a lot of music courses.
I'm in College and there's this girl I'm becoming attracted to. I've seen her around the past couple of semesters because we take a lot of music courses. I don't have any classes together though. I've heard her sing in concerts and I think she's very talented and attractive. I want to get to know her better.
Here's a problem though. I can be insecure talking to girls I'm attracted to. It goes okay at first but I'll run out of things to say. I'll cut the conversation short after a minute. Plus she's kinda popular when she performs at concerts. I'm not though. It almost makes me feel like I'm out of her league. There are other guys that talk to her too sometimes better than me. This only adds to my insecurity. I'll hear her name in the music building and my heart skips a beat. I've had this insecurity issue since high school. How can I get past this and stop being insecure? I don't want this to turn into a fear of rejection where I don't talk to girls I'm attracted to at all. Sorry for the long read. Thanks.
or:I'm in College and there's this girl I'm becoming attracted to. I've seen her around the past couple of semesters because we take a lot of music courses. I don't have any classes together though. I've heard her sing in concerts and I think she's very talented and attractive. I want to get to know her better.Here's a problem though. I can be insecure talking to girls I'm attracted to. It goes okay at first but I'll run out of things to say. I'll cut the conversation short after a minute. Plus she's kinda popular when she performs at concerts. I'm not though. It almost makes me feel like I'm out of her league. There are other guys that talk to her too sometimes better than me. This only adds to my insecurity. I'll hear her name in the music building and my heart skips a beat. I've had this insecurity issue since high school. How can I get past this and stop being insecure? I don't want this to turn into a fear of rejection where I don't talk to girls I'm attracted to at all. Sorry for the long read. Thanks.
or:Admit to yourself that you have insecurities. Just take 5 minutes now to write down a list of everything that you\u2019re insecure about. Admit to others that you have insecurities, it may be embarrassing but it may work. Make sure that those people who take advantage of your insecurities and taken out of your life they will just pull you down. Prove to yourself that you can be happy with your insecurities and other people will be too.
