How do I know if a guy is playing with my emotions?

are there any signs i can look out for?Is there a way i can find out without actually asking him?By the way im not in a relationship with him...And iv

are there any signs i can look out for?
Is there a way i can find out without actually asking him?
By the way im not in a relationship with him...
And i've known him for over two years now, but only started having feelings for him a year ago...

or:are there any signs i can look out for?Is there a way i can find out without actually asking him?By the way im not in a relationship with him...And i've known him for over two years now, but only started having feelings for him a year ago...


or:it's pretty hard to say without knowing more specifics. Generally when people are playing with your emotions they're manipulating you. Does he flatter you in private but then put you down in front of others? Does he say nice things to you only to get something from you? Does he treat you with the same respect you treat him? A friend or boyfriend should be there for you when you need them, not just when they want something, and should make you feel safe, happy and cared for. If this person makes you feel bad about yourself, guilty or sad that's usually how you can tell. At the same time, if you're very young, sometimes guys haven't figured out how to express their own feelings. He may be acting weird because he doesn't know how he feels. The best thing to do is ask him what's up directly and let him know how you're feeling. Trust your instincts; if something about the relationship doesn't feel right, you may want to distance yourself until you're sure about what's going on.

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