How the hell can I remove my shyness and nervousness?
i am a 20-year-old girl.its my secret i never tell anyone around me and it will nerver happen. i am easy to be shy and nervous when i meet good looki
i am a 20-year-old girl.its my secret i never tell anyone around me and it will nerver happen. i am easy to be shy and nervous when i meet good looking boys,and dont want to talk to them.but i know i do want to talk to them and make friends with them, but i just cant make it.
when i was in high school,some guys in my class were really mean.they abused me at any time they can,calling me"ugly monster".and everytime i passed by them,they would make sure they wouldnt touch me like i was a kind of virus.that really hurted me! till now i dont have couragement to talk with any boys over 5 minutes cuz i dont want them find i am ugly. i feel everything i do is trying to make boys not have terrible impression on me.i cant be myself.i dont no what to do.i think if i keep being this way,i will never get any relationships,that will upset me.plz help me.what can i do to get over my shyness and nervousness.
ps.i notice that its easy for me to impress every girl i meet and get along well with them.
or:i am a 20-year-old girl.its my secret i never tell anyone around me and it will nerver happen. i am easy to be shy and nervous when i meet good looking boys,and dont want to talk to them.but i know i do want to talk to them and make friends with them, but i just cant make it.when i was in high school,some guys in my class were really mean.they abused me at any time they can,calling me\"ugly monster\".and everytime i passed by them,they would make sure they wouldnt touch me like i was a kind of virus.that really hurted me! till now i dont have couragement to talk with any boys over 5 minutes cuz i dont want them find i am ugly. i feel everything i do is trying to make boys not have terrible impression on me.i cant be myself.i dont no what to do.i think if i keep being this way,i will never get any relationships,that will upset me.plz help me.what can i do to get over my shyness and nervousness.ps.i notice that its easy for me to impress every girl i meet and get along well with them.
or:It all starts with what you think of yourself.I was in the same position you are, i also was bullied until my 13th.and believe me, most of the time it's just because people are jealous.What i'm trying to say is that you should love yourself just the way you are.Don't care about what others think of you, they have no idea of real beauty,just care about what you think about yourself.My mom always told me, first you must love yourself, then you will send that positive energy to others. she told that in the beginning of the year and i now have a boyfriend.ps: i really want to hear how things went.greetz, catwoman
or:i think the reason behind that is your history of being bullied you need to overcome that dear, so it will not ruined your social life i know it is not easy because I experience that myself. what i can advice you is to find something that only you can do and excel with it in this way it will help you to have confidence in yourself. Then just be yourself when there are other people always think of this you are beautiful we are individual but each and every one of us has a beauty in it
or:Hey! don't let noone hold you down.if people think ur ugly, WHO CARES, thats THIER PROBLEM NOT YOURS.its you style girl. you should be proud of your self. just walk strait up to them boys and say hi, coase who cares what they say. if they don't like you they don't deserve you, you got that?
