How to get my bf to be more affectionate?
Hi. i am 13 and my boyfrend and i started dating a few days ago. the problem is we never talk. we are both shy about relationships. sometimes he waits
Hi. i am 13 and my boyfrend and i started dating a few days ago. the problem is we never talk. we are both shy about relationships. sometimes he waits for me after school and we pass notes in class, but thats about it. i don't have a phone so we don't talk after we leave school.
my first question is how do i get him to open up?
my next question is how do i get him to be more affectionate? like hugging, holding hands, going on dates.
my final question is if he doesnt hug me or hold my hand soon, should i just do it? how do i do it?
or:Hi. i am 13 and my boyfrend and i started dating a few days ago. the problem is we never talk. we are both shy about relationships. sometimes he waits for me after school and we pass notes in class, but thats about it. i don't have a phone so we don't talk after we leave school.my first question is how do i get him to open up? my next question is how do i get him to be more affectionate? like hugging, holding hands, going on dates.my final question is if he doesnt hug me or hold my hand soon, should i just do it? how do i do it?
or:Maybe the boy you are dating isnt ready for a relationship yet?
or:you should talk to him about something you both like, then once he's comfortable around your, grab his hand gently and look at him and smile... eventually you could hug or what not, i hope i helped~~~fishstick5
or:well, you can break the ''touch'' barrior by compairing the length of your hands.(it worked with my bf)(for instance, are your fingers longer than mine? and just take his hand and compare)and otherwise just wait, i too have a bf who is very shy, and if you be patient things will work out.
or:just look in his eyes and see where he looks at u..feel love in her eyes.
or:What if i have short legs?
or:I had the same problem. All you have to do is talk to him. Tell him how you feel and you guys can go from there. And after all, it's only been a couple of days. It will get easier to talk to him. In the meantime, play question games where you ask and he answers and vice versa. I really hope this helps.
