I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. I want to go away to uni but this will mean breaking up?
It sounds stupid but I really love him and its been an amazing four years. I know university is an amazing once in a lifetime opportunity and I dont w
It sounds stupid but I really love him and its been an amazing four years. I know university is an amazing once in a lifetime opportunity and I don't want to regret not moving away. But he means a lot to me and if we break up I don't know how I will handle it. I don't want to be one of these people that goes home every weekend, but if I am miserable about the break I won't be able to enjoy myself. Also it seems stupid to break up a good relationship, I don't know if I will ever find someone else I'm so compatible with, but at the same time I feel I should take this opportunity?
or:It sounds stupid but I really love him and its been an amazing four years. I know university is an amazing once in a lifetime opportunity and I don't want to regret not moving away. But he means a lot to me and if we break up I don't know how I will handle it. I don't want to be one of these people that goes home every weekend, but if I am miserable about the break I won't be able to enjoy myself. Also it seems stupid to break up a good relationship, I don't know if I will ever find someone else I'm so compatible with, but at the same time I feel I should take this opportunity?
or:First off, tough call, but is there any reason he can't follow you there to live?If he cannot, why does you going away to Uni for a while require you both to split up? ( I accept at your age 3 years is a long time) I have known many couples do this & stay together, the reverse too where one graduates & leaves Uni for work! I think you should first, if you have not done so already, tell your boyfriend of how much this opportunity means to you & how it includes him.If your relationship is as strong as you imply, then it could grow deeper, as you would demonstrate real trust & wanting for each other the best they can be for a better future life.Last question, if you do not go, will you not in some corner of your heart harbor a little bit of resentment that he held you back?Tough call as I said at the start, but I hope this in some small way helps.
or:you could ask him what he thinks or you could ask the lord to show you a way to do this so it could be a great way to accomplishment what you did to do ask for a answer to your situation
or:Well, that's your option, you wanna go to Uni, you don't have to break up, but if you won't see him for a long time, it's a choice to suspend seeing him in till you can, your choice, Uni and not breaking up, or suspend seeing him in till you can, breaking up is not an option.
