I have feelings for him now but don't know how to tell him?
I have a friend that Im really close with. When we first met, it was very intense. We were both very into each other and he would always tell me that
I have a friend that I'm really close with. When we first met, it was very intense. We were both very into each other and he would always tell me that he liked me and wanted to be in a relationship with me. I didn't want to start anything with him because I felt I wasn't in a good place in my life, and I knew that he was dealing with stuff also. So we decided to just be friends. We would always call or text each other and hang out at least once a week. During this time, we both would "mess around" with other people. I never really cared since at the time I viewed him as just a friend; him, on the other hand would always get jealous and very upset and we'd fight about it and be mad for a day or two and then we'd get over it and reconcile. About 5 months ago we got into a pretty bad argument over some stupid stuff that happened when we were both drunk. I told him I didn't have feelings for him and that he needed to stop acting like my boyfriend, out of anger, but I didn't mean it. We stayed away from each other for a while to help cool things off. During this time he started dating someone. Every time him and I hang out, he always calls her to chat for a bit, he sweet talks her and once he hangs up, he tells me that he needs to get rid of her and complains of how annoying and clingy she is. Then he usually starts telling me that he wants to find a girl like me to be with, which confuses the hell out of me because well hello I'm single and what he's looking for.
Anyway, I went out with him and a bunch of guys this weekend and the guy I invited was trying to keep me away from him the whole night and I think my friend noticed and of course was jealous. I called him later after I got home to explain and he didn't even let me talk, just told me he was busy and hung up. He did it again today which was weird cause he's always happy to talk to me. So now I'm sitting here realizing that I have major feelings for him, but I don't know what to do to get him back... I don't kow how to feel. Do I still have a chance or is he over me?
or:I have a friend that I'm really close with. When we first met, it was very intense. We were both very into each other and he would always tell me that he liked me and wanted to be in a relationship with me. I didn't want to start anything with him because I felt I wasn't in a good place in my life, and I knew that he was dealing with stuff also. So we decided to just be friends. We would always call or text each other and hang out at least once a week. During this time, we both would \"mess around\" with other people. I never really cared since at the time I viewed him as just a friend; him, on the other hand would always get jealous and very upset and we'd fight about it and be mad for a day or two and then we'd get over it and reconcile. About 5 months ago we got into a pretty bad argument over some stupid stuff that happened when we were both drunk. I told him I didn't have feelings for him and that he needed to stop acting like my boyfriend, out of anger, but I didn't mean it. We stayed away from each other for a while to help cool things off. During this time he started dating someone. Every time him and I hang out, he always calls her to chat for a bit, he sweet talks her and once he hangs up, he tells me that he needs to get rid of her and complains of how annoying and clingy she is. Then he usually starts telling me that he wants to find a girl like me to be with, which confuses the hell out of me because well hello I'm single and what he's looking for.Anyway, I went out with him and a bunch of guys this weekend and the guy I invited was trying to keep me away from him the whole night and I think my friend noticed and of course was jealous. I called him later after I got home to explain and he didn't even let me talk, just told me he was busy and hung up. He did it again today which was weird cause he's always happy to talk to me. So now I'm sitting here realizing that I have major feelings for him, but I don't know what to do to get him back... I don't kow how to feel. Do I still have a chance or is he over me?
or:Ofcourse you still have a chance, he clearly likes you because if he didn't, the thing which your other friend did wouldn't bother himHe's probably kinda tired or maybe he feels like you wouldn't see him as nothing but a friend due to his many failed attemptYou guys should talk about thisBut he is such a jerk to do that to his gf I hope someday he doesn't do this to you as well when you become his
or:Just tell him
