I need help on fixing my family. What would you do in my shoes?

First of all Im 16 years old. Second, my sister and I are surviving victims of child abuse and neglect from both our parents.My grandmother, who has b

First of all I'm 16 years old. Second, my sister and I are surviving victims of child abuse and neglect from both our parents.
My grandmother, who has been doing all she can with our grandfather to heal my sister and my wounds. But a lot has been going on between our grandparents and their kids which includes our mom. Lately my grandparents have been being blamed for everything by their own children. My uncle (one of my grandparent's sons) called and told his mother that it was her fault that his wife and him don't have a relationship with us and that it's her fault that his wife and him hate us. Our grandparents have done all they could to give their children the best and this is what they get in return? I've watched my grandmother cry everyday and hate herself because of our uncle. I want to help my grandparents and tell my uncle that what he's doing is unethical and that he has no excuse to be doing this. I want to tell him that if anyone should be angry at their parents it should be my sister and I. But I'm not sure how to go about this without having bad consequences fallow. What would you do if you were me?

or:First of all I'm 16 years old. Second, my sister and I are surviving victims of child abuse and neglect from both our parents.My grandmother, who has been doing all she can with our grandfather to heal my sister and my wounds. But a lot has been going on between our grandparents and their kids which includes our mom. Lately my grandparents have been being blamed for everything by their own children. My uncle (one of my grandparent's sons) called and told his mother that it was her fault that his wife and him don't have a relationship with us and that it's her fault that his wife and him hate us. Our grandparents have done all they could to give their children the best and this is what they get in return? I've watched my grandmother cry everyday and hate herself because of our uncle. I want to help my grandparents and tell my uncle that what he's doing is unethical and that he has no excuse to be doing this. I want to tell him that if anyone should be angry at their parents it should be my sister and I. But I'm not sure how to go about this without having bad consequences fallow. What would you do if you were me?

or:i would keep my grandpa and grandma together as much as should be appreciated now your uncle and his wife are probably feeling sorry for their selves because they didn't get you and your sister so their jealous that grandma and grandpa are taking care of you not them this is what i see help grandma clean and take care of the house you know grandma is thankful for you and your sister show grandma and grandpa their very much loved and do things to show them that you appreciate them and everything they do for you believe me they will appreciate everything you do and tell the uncle and his wife that you appreciate what grandma and grandpa do for you if you don't have anything nice to say to them don't say nothing at all

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