I was sexually harrassed and now Im terrified for a physical exam. 13 year old girl?
I am a 13 year old girl.Okay so a little while ago I was sexually harrassed.First off I cant have people touch my stomach. I dont know why, but when I
I am a 13 year old girl.
Okay so a little while ago I was sexually harrassed.
First off I can't have people touch my stomach. I don't know why, but when I'm lying down and someone touches my stomach i freak out; I feel vulnerable and frightened and I want to get out. The worst is if it's a guy especially if he's older or if it's a doctor. Is it possible this is cause of what happened?
Next, getting into relationships with guys is really tricky cause I don't want them to do anything. Lately a guy was flirting with me and tried to touch my chest and it made me all uncomfortable and scared because he wouldn't stop even when I kept telling him to.
And lastly, I have to go for a "complete physical exam for teens" soon and I'm terrified. I know they make you undress and stuff but if they touched my chest or down there or my tummy idk I'm so scared. Plus I was told that they stick something up you which I can't deal with right now, what if they broke my thing? Also the only doctor at the place I go is a guy, there are no girl doctors there.
Is my fear of having people touch my stomach related to what happened?
How can I get out of the doctor touching touching me? (chest, down there or tummy)
What will the doctor do to me?
My parents dont know about what happened, and I don't like talking to them about this kinda stuff. I go into the doctors alone.
Please help me I'm so scared.
or:I am a 13 year old girl.Okay so a little while ago I was sexually harrassed.First off I can't have people touch my stomach. I don't know why, but when I'm lying down and someone touches my stomach i freak out; I feel vulnerable and frightened and I want to get out. The worst is if it's a guy especially if he's older or if it's a doctor. Is it possible this is cause of what happened?Next, getting into relationships with guys is really tricky cause I don't want them to do anything. Lately a guy was flirting with me and tried to touch my chest and it made me all uncomfortable and scared because he wouldn't stop even when I kept telling him to. And lastly, I have to go for a \"complete physical exam for teens\" soon and I'm terrified. I know they make you undress and stuff but if they touched my chest or down there or my tummy idk I'm so scared. Plus I was told that they stick something up you which I can't deal with right now, what if they broke my thing? Also the only doctor at the place I go is a guy, there are no girl doctors there.Is my fear of having people touch my stomach related to what happened?How can I get out of the doctor touching touching me? (chest, down there or tummy)What will the doctor do to me?My parents dont know about what happened, and I don't like talking to them about this kinda stuff. I go into the doctors alone.Please help me I'm so scared.
or:That is a really tough one. I think you should just go and try to stay calm . When you are there just think that it's not harassment it's just an exam and it will all be over soon. Hope this helped:)
or:What happened to make you so scared ?
