I'm 16 and unsure of whether I'm in love or in love with the feeling of being in love!?
I basically crushed on a guy intermediately last year and turns he was crushing on me since the year before.He was all out to impress & lo and behold
I basically crushed on a guy intermediately last year and turns he was crushing on me since the year before.He was all out to impress & lo and behold I fell for him in a span of 6 months. I'm uncertain if I've fallen for him or the version of him he portrayed to me. This year after a long conversation and a slight probe he told me I'm his first love & that he feels strongly about me.(He has planned our wedding!) I don't know if what I'm doing is right because being in this relationship is causing me to lie to my parents about it & I haven't kept things from my parents before so this eats at my conscious.We haven't done anything as such.....Just 2 conversations face to face and a short hug. We mostly chat on Insta since we're in different schools and hardly meet.We met in church basically...... He's also my teacher's son. He's really sweet & always says stuff that'll make me feel good. He makes stuff that to me feel like flaws in myself seem like my strengths. He makes me feel in ways I've never felt before & has taught me to value myself. Every time we text I not only fall for him a little more but learn to love myself way more....... It's like I want to end it just to stick to my moral values.
or:I basically crushed on a guy intermediately last year and turns he was crushing on me since the year before.He was all out to impress & lo and behold I fell for him in a span of 6 months. I'm uncertain if I've fallen for him or the version of him he portrayed to me. This year after a long conversation and a slight probe he told me I'm his first love & that he feels strongly about me.(He has planned our wedding!) I don't know if what I'm doing is right because being in this relationship is causing me to lie to my parents about it & I haven't kept things from my parents before so this eats at my conscious.We haven't done anything as such.....Just 2 conversations face to face and a short hug. We mostly chat on Insta since we're in different schools and hardly meet.We met in church basically...... He's also my teacher's son. He's really sweet & always says stuff that'll make me feel good. He makes stuff that to me feel like flaws in myself seem like my strengths. He makes me feel in ways I've never felt before & has taught me to value myself. Every time we text I not only fall for him a little more but learn to love myself way more....... It's like I want to end it just to stick to my moral values.
or:Love is when you are aware of a need and you take care of it. That is a lot more work that just being \"in love\". When your clothes are dirty you put them in a hamper. That way they don't get walked on. After you wash them you fold them and put them in a drawer, or hang them in the closet, and that way they look nice and are easy to find when you want to wear them again, and they make you look like you take care of your stuff. People see that you take care of your clothes and they think maybe you could take care of a family too.When you have a car you wash it and change the oil and avoid scratching the paint. Not because the car is such great company but because the car needs those things. In return your car makes you look like a person who takes care of details. People say \"She loves her car.\"When you can look at a man to see what he needs and how you can take care of him, then you can say you love him.
or:So to me you two sound like you're both in love, I don't really understand the question, But good for you! enjoy
