I'm 27 years old and soon to be married. I'm finding more and more people are now asking me when I'm
... having kids. In all honesty Im so very happy happy for all my friends and their beautiful families but when I personally think of having kids I g
... having kids. In all honesty I'm so very happy happy for all my friends and their beautiful families but when I personally think of having kids I get a panic attack. I feel like I would have to give up so much for something I've never really imagined myself doing. When I think of my future I think about my growing business, continuing school, traveling and just being with my husband. Why is that such a bad thing ? Why do women feel the need to pressure women to having kids ? Why is not okay to be happy child free ???? Just really weighing in my mind. If my fiancé accepts not having children why can't anyone else ?
or:... having kids. In all honesty I'm so very happy happy for all my friends and their beautiful families but when I personally think of having kids I get a panic attack. I feel like I would have to give up so much for something I've never really imagined myself doing. When I think of my future I think about my growing business, continuing school, traveling and just being with my husband. Why is that such a bad thing ? Why do women feel the need to pressure women to having kids ? Why is not okay to be happy child free ???? Just really weighing in my mind. If my fianc\u00e9 accepts not having children why can't anyone else ?
or:I think that it is your choice if you have kids or not no one can make you and if you want a happy child free life then do it is entirely your choice
or:I actually feel the same way you do. I'm 29 and happy just the way things are. I believe its up to you and what makes you happy. I personally don't want a relationship or kids do to taking too much time from me. Not everyone is suppose to be the same we all have different goals and expectations in life . That's what makes this world a beautiful place. If we were all the same it would be chaotic and boring. I hope this helps you.
