If I don't eat HUGE meals, boyfriend does not eat. He is already emaciated. I'm overweight?

My boyfriend is 61, weighs less than me, looks bony. I am very scared because I am overweight and do not eat after 6pm, only light soups. Because of

My boyfriend is 6'1, weighs less than me, looks bony. I am very scared because I am overweight and do not eat after 6pm, only light soups. Because of this he chooses to not eat, then I feel bad and I end up eating...I gain more weight and now my face is distorted looking because of the stored fat. I am unhealthy, he is unhealthy, opposite ends of the weight spectrum. What do I do? What scares me is that he said I was trying to starve him to death and I am not, I am trying to get to a healthy weight, I am 167 pounds, knees hurt, wear a size 12 to 14, I am 5'5. I feel trapped and don't want any legal problems to arise from this, he is free to eat anything he wants but he wont eat if I dont eat HUGE meals: meat, potatoes, bread at 9pm, my body can't break down that food, and I go to bed at 10pm, its just an awful mess. I think I have to leave to be healthy!

or:My boyfriend is 6'1, weighs less than me, looks bony. I am very scared because I am overweight and do not eat after 6pm, only light soups. Because of this he chooses to not eat, then I feel bad and I end up eating...I gain more weight and now my face is distorted looking because of the stored fat. I am unhealthy, he is unhealthy, opposite ends of the weight spectrum. What do I do? What scares me is that he said I was trying to starve him to death and I am not, I am trying to get to a healthy weight, I am 167 pounds, knees hurt, wear a size 12 to 14, I am 5'5. I feel trapped and don't want any legal problems to arise from this, he is free to eat anything he wants but he wont eat if I dont eat HUGE meals: meat, potatoes, bread at 9pm, my body can't break down that food, and I go to bed at 10pm, its just an awful mess. I think I have to leave to be healthy!

or:Well he won't eat unless you do you choose not to and he refuses to i think it would be in your best interest to let this relationship go it will kill you in the long run cause all you will do is gain weight thats unhealthy also unheathy for him as well .Cause he uses it like a vice to get you to eat hes already blaming you for him not eating your gonna have some very unhealthy things happen which can turn into medical problems you don't want you will have to weigh this out.

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