Is it common for the guy after a break up to move on faster than the girl?
Not long ago me and my boyfriend, ex boyfriend now, broke up because of a situation with him and another girl. It happened about three weeks ago. Afte
Not long ago me and my boyfriend, ex boyfriend now, broke up because of a situation with him and another girl. It happened about three weeks ago. After breaking up he seemed to be okay with the break up because he decided to just go and be with the girl that caused the break up in the first place. He’s been posting her all on Facebook saying how much he loves her. He tags her in little cute post. He’s been very open about his new relationship. The girl is only 17 he’s 22 about to be 23. He pretty much cheated on me with someone younger than both of us and now he’s dating her and that’s weird to me. Now before all of this happened I let him see my iPod that I never got back after the break up and i’ve been trying to get it back. Every time I’ve tried to get it back it’s been a new excuse to why he can’t give it back to me. Recently he asked me if he could just keep it for a while because his phone was out and he needed something until he got it fixed. I told him no because even after everything that happened with us he never apologized to me for hurting me and now he expects me to help him out. He responded by saying he doesn’t really like to think about what he did to me because he knows he did something wrong and if he thinks about it he’s gonna start to feel as though he doesn’t want to live anymore. I was confused because from Facebook he seems to be happy with the girl that caused our break up. This was really my first real relationship so I’m confused about a lot of things.
or:Not long ago me and my boyfriend, ex boyfriend now, broke up because of a situation with him and another girl. It happened about three weeks ago. After breaking up he seemed to be okay with the break up because he decided to just go and be with the girl that caused the break up in the first place. He\u2019s been posting her all on Facebook saying how much he loves her. He tags her in little cute post. He\u2019s been very open about his new relationship. The girl is only 17 he\u2019s 22 about to be 23. He pretty much cheated on me with someone younger than both of us and now he\u2019s dating her and that\u2019s weird to me. Now before all of this happened I let him see my iPod that I never got back after the break up and i\u2019ve been trying to get it back. Every time I\u2019ve tried to get it back it\u2019s been a new excuse to why he can\u2019t give it back to me. Recently he asked me if he could just keep it for a while because his phone was out and he needed something until he got it fixed. I told him no because even after everything that happened with us he never apologized to me for hurting me and now he expects me to help him out. He responded by saying he doesn\u2019t really like to think about what he did to me because he knows he did something wrong and if he thinks about it he\u2019s gonna start to feel as though he doesn\u2019t want to live anymore. I was confused because from Facebook he seems to be happy with the girl that caused our break up. This was really my first real relationship so I\u2019m confused about a lot of things.
or:There is absolutely nothing strange about what he did. Both males AND females cheat sometimes for months before a break up happens and they walk out of one relationship and continue on with the person they already have a relationship with.You should be thankful he is your ex because this is an immature, cheating liar and I can't imagine you'd actually want that kind of person in your life or to father your children. One a cheater always a cheater.You either take a large male friend, cousin, brother or father with you to go get your device or quit asking about it. Chances are he gave it to his girlfriend and youll never see it again. Expensive learning lesson about setting your standards higher for future men in your life.Good luck.
