Is this guy an ALIEN? or does he just mean well?
...So ive been talking this guy since january and when we first started talking he was out of town for hockey, he was so sweet and kept talking abou
...So ive been talking this guy since january and when we first started talking he was out of town for hockey, he was so sweet and kept talking about the things we would do this summer once he was back. Once he actually got back we didnt meet up for at least 3 weeks and the conversations got weak. We went for coffee one night and everything was great in person and texting got alot better after actually seeing eachother. i invited him to my friends party (i always invite him to gatherings) and he got along with everyone and was super pda, and talked so highly of me to my friends and the first time my friends ever met him he told my bff he was inlove with me (we've only hung out twice by then....). We both slept there and in the morning he got picked up before everyone woke up. Another time he slept at my friends with me after partying and he got up super earlier to get picked up and told me the reason for this was because his neighbour tried to commit suicide and his family is really close to their family. He started becoming distant over text not because of his nieghbor but because he got busy with work and would barely reply and i would get mad and he wouldnt understand but at random times he would tell me really personal things like his dad is an alcoholic...coming from the perfect cookie cutter family he has never invited me to meet, but he says all his friends and family know that we are seeing each other but never invites me to meet any of them...One time i tried to end it and got fed up because i thought i was putting myself in stress with a relationship that wasnt going anywhere and poured his heart out again and said he would change and he didnt want to lose me and all his friends and family know he cares about me so much (once again i have never met them) but im fully aware of what a healthy relationship looks like and he should find time to spend with me. I thought he was just using me to hangout with my friends because it seemed like he invests more time in trying to social with them and other ppl rather than trying to spend time with me. (again this is 6th month ive been seeing him and ive only seen him 11 times). My friend thinks he is an alien because he comes and goes and i have never met his family or friends he talks about and i have barely seen him in the past 6 months.
what are your thoughts???
or:...So ive been talking this guy since january and when we first started talking he was out of town for hockey, he was so sweet and kept talking about the things we would do this summer once he was back. Once he actually got back we didnt meet up for at least 3 weeks and the conversations got weak. We went for coffee one night and everything was great in person and texting got alot better after actually seeing eachother. i invited him to my friends party (i always invite him to gatherings) and he got along with everyone and was super pda, and talked so highly of me to my friends and the first time my friends ever met him he told my bff he was inlove with me (we've only hung out twice by then....). We both slept there and in the morning he got picked up before everyone woke up. Another time he slept at my friends with me after partying and he got up super earlier to get picked up and told me the reason for this was because his neighbour tried to commit suicide and his family is really close to their family. He started becoming distant over text not because of his nieghbor but because he got busy with work and would barely reply and i would get mad and he wouldnt understand but at random times he would tell me really personal things like his dad is an alcoholic...coming from the perfect cookie cutter family he has never invited me to meet, but he says all his friends and family know that we are seeing each other but never invites me to meet any of them...One time i tried to end it and got fed up because i thought i was putting myself in stress with a relationship that wasnt going anywhere and poured his heart out again and said he would change and he didnt want to lose me and all his friends and family know he cares about me so much (once again i have never met them) but im fully aware of what a healthy relationship looks like and he should find time to spend with me. I thought he was just using me to hangout with my friends because it seemed like he invests more time in trying to social with them and other ppl rather than trying to spend time with me. (again this is 6th month ive been seeing him and ive only seen him 11 times). My friend thinks he is an alien because he comes and goes and i have never met his family or friends he talks about and i have barely seen him in the past 6 months.what are your thoughts???
or:Girl that's really not a relationship I went they so something similar and honestly he may just have other things going on and really may just have a girl friend but just keeping u around because he know u will b there stop making yourself some ones option. Just move on you will find much better I promise !
