My girlfriend of 3 years is going with friends to a gay bar to see Chippendales?

Shes going with about 7 other people...she says shes going to hide behind all of her friends because she wants nothing to do with tbe male strippers..

Shes going with about 7 other people...she says shes going to hide behind all of her friends because she wants nothing to do with tbe male strippers...shes going there "to be with friends"...but no matter what she tells me im going to feel like theres something more shes NOT telling me...I dont know her friends and theyd have no reason to tell me if something happened I didnt like.. She even got a facebook message from someone going to the event offering her a one time offer and an experience of a lifetime with the strippers...I trust her but she knows how upset I am about her going and I feel like if something were to happen she may not tell me in fear of how I would react. I told her she can go at her own risk but no matter how hard I try I cant promise this wont put a hole in our relationship.....

Am I overreacting???

or:Shes going with about 7 other people...she says shes going to hide behind all of her friends because she wants nothing to do with tbe male strippers...shes going there \"to be with friends\"...but no matter what she tells me im going to feel like theres something more shes NOT telling me...I dont know her friends and theyd have no reason to tell me if something happened I didnt like.. She even got a facebook message from someone going to the event offering her a one time offer and an experience of a lifetime with the strippers...I trust her but she knows how upset I am about her going and I feel like if something were to happen she may not tell me in fear of how I would react. I told her she can go at her own risk but no matter how hard I try I cant promise this wont put a hole in our relationship.....Am I overreacting???

or:It seems you know a lot about the situation, which is a very good sign. She hasn't hid anything from you thus far, and I don't think she would hide anything from you if it were to happen. It's okay to feel jealous but you shouldn't let it ruin your relationship with her- she has been yours for 3 years and she isn't going to go anywhere. Ask yourself this: is getting all worked up about this worth losing your relationship?

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