Need advice with a girl, please help?
Ok, so I’ve known that I’m a lesbian since high school, and I’ve been in love with the same girl for the past year. The problem is t
Ok, so I’ve known that I’m a lesbian since high school, and I’ve been in love with the same girl for the past year. The problem is that she claims to be straight as a pole. But my gaydar goes haywire anytime I see her or think about her (I have a freakin accurate gaydar). She doesn’t have a problem with gay people, when I told her I was a lesbian, she said it was “cute”... I really think that she is gay, or at least bisexual… I mean there are telltale signs, like the short hair, Doc martens, lesbian sandals like the ones in Modern Family, Tegan & Sara, and she likes lots of movies where homosexuality is present… oh, and pictures of half-naked girls on facebook and so on. When it comes to me, we are good friends, we talk, sometimes she touches my arm, or shoulder, and holds eye contact for a very long time. But sometimes she is very distant, and avoids all kind of contact. It’s like she’s running away from me, but that can’t be, since there are times when she’s very friendly, and all clingy… Today I asked her about this, and she told me it's not my fault, but for a while she was kind of suspecting that I like her, and got confused (well, that didn't stop her from being touchy-feely sometimes). I lied to her, and told her it's not true, and she said that her answer would be "no" anyway... But all that time she was very flustered, and all shy and smiling and looking at her feet and fidgeting... So my question is, is there a chance that she likes me? Maybe she doesn't realize, or denies it... is this possible?
Please help :(
or:Ok, so I\u2019ve known that I\u2019m a lesbian since high school, and I\u2019ve been in love with the same girl for the past year. The problem is that she claims to be straight as a pole. But my gaydar goes haywire anytime I see her or think about her (I have a freakin accurate gaydar). She doesn\u2019t have a problem with gay people, when I told her I was a lesbian, she said it was \u201ccute\u201d... I really think that she is gay, or at least bisexual\u2026 I mean there are telltale signs, like the short hair, Doc martens, lesbian sandals like the ones in Modern Family, Tegan & Sara, and she likes lots of movies where homosexuality is present\u2026 oh, and pictures of half-naked girls on facebook and so on. When it comes to me, we are good friends, we talk, sometimes she touches my arm, or shoulder, and holds eye contact for a very long time. But sometimes she is very distant, and avoids all kind of contact. It\u2019s like she\u2019s running away from me, but that can\u2019t be, since there are times when she\u2019s very friendly, and all clingy\u2026 Today I asked her about this, and she told me it's not my fault, but for a while she was kind of suspecting that I like her, and got confused (well, that didn't stop her from being touchy-feely sometimes). I lied to her, and told her it's not true, and she said that her answer would be \"no\" anyway... But all that time she was very flustered, and all shy and smiling and looking at her feet and fidgeting... So my question is, is there a chance that she likes me? Maybe she doesn't realize, or denies it... is this possible?Please help :(
or:she might be gay/bio and trying 2 hide it. she might like u but she might not now it try 2 get closer 2 her but make it not so notice-able she might not even now she is gay tell her ur having a sleepover invite her play spin-the-bottle with her+others if u 2 kiss she might feel something ,true or dare u can tell her on true if she gay or not
or:maybe you could ask her for a sleep over at your house??might be inestering if you know what i mean
or:I think that the girl is confused, she likes you but she does not want to admit homosexuality or bisexuality, she needs time and also I think she does not want to be criticized by other people , she needs to be thought as \"normal\"
