Once a best friend, avoids talking to me?

This girl has been one of my best friends. There was a time when she was madly in love with me, but then I was the one who kept denying and remained j

This girl has been one of my best friends. There was a time when she was madly in love with me, but then I was the one who kept denying and remained just friend. None of that came in the way of our friendship. But eventually I developed the same feelings for her, unfortunately by that time, although still friends, she had stopped feeling the same way for me. When I proposed, she didn't deny but didn't even give a full yes. She thinks she needs time before she could say yes. She cannot hurt me. But when I meet her, her love doesn't remain hidden, just that she wont say it out loud and clear. All her friends and family know about us, so much that some of her closest friends actually treat me as if we're already engaged. I am alright with the little wait before entering the relation, but problem is, when we are not meeting she wont talk to me over phone, she wont respond to my messages. This was never the case just a few days before when we were just friends. She would be the one eager to talk and laugh with me. I have no clue how she is going to say yes if we don't get to talk to each other? While her love and care is all visible when I am around, why would she avoid any communication when we are apart? This phase is too frustrating. Her avoidance hurts me and I am scared that the frustration may make me hurt her. Why is she doing this and how do I respond?

or:This girl has been one of my best friends. There was a time when she was madly in love with me, but then I was the one who kept denying and remained just friend. None of that came in the way of our friendship. But eventually I developed the same feelings for her, unfortunately by that time, although still friends, she had stopped feeling the same way for me. When I proposed, she didn't deny but didn't even give a full yes. She thinks she needs time before she could say yes. She cannot hurt me. But when I meet her, her love doesn't remain hidden, just that she wont say it out loud and clear. All her friends and family know about us, so much that some of her closest friends actually treat me as if we're already engaged. I am alright with the little wait before entering the relation, but problem is, when we are not meeting she wont talk to me over phone, she wont respond to my messages. This was never the case just a few days before when we were just friends. She would be the one eager to talk and laugh with me. I have no clue how she is going to say yes if we don't get to talk to each other? While her love and care is all visible when I am around, why would she avoid any communication when we are apart? This phase is too frustrating. Her avoidance hurts me and I am scared that the frustration may make me hurt her. Why is she doing this and how do I respond?


or:Just ask yourself if she is worth fighting for before doing at it... if she is worthy then court her, don't ever let her go love her like you do and love her than no one can love her the way you do... :)

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