Please help! My mom is secretly dating! What should I do?

Last night my mom was talking to someone on the phone beside my sleeping body so I listened to who it was. It was a guy. My mom and dad have been divo

Last night my mom was talking to someone on the phone beside my sleeping body so I listened to who it was. It was a guy. My mom and dad have been divorced for 10 years so I can understand why my mom would want to date people. I just don't want her getting hurt again like she did all the other times she dated somebody. I know there is something going on between them. Something romantic. I think it's great that my mom found a guy but she doesn't deserve all the heartbreak that came with the other guys. She hasn't told me or my brother yet and I don't know if I should confront her about what I know or wait until she's ready to tell us. Please help!
P.S. he lives in California and was talking about bringing us there. I live in Pennsylvania. There's no way I'm leaving my friends and going to California just for a relationship that "might" work. I just hope my mom is sensible.

or:Last night my mom was talking to someone on the phone beside my sleeping body so I listened to who it was. It was a guy. My mom and dad have been divorced for 10 years so I can understand why my mom would want to date people. I just don't want her getting hurt again like she did all the other times she dated somebody. I know there is something going on between them. Something romantic. I think it's great that my mom found a guy but she doesn't deserve all the heartbreak that came with the other guys. She hasn't told me or my brother yet and I don't know if I should confront her about what I know or wait until she's ready to tell us. Please help!P.S. he lives in California and was talking about bringing us there. I live in Pennsylvania. There's no way I'm leaving my friends and going to California just for a relationship that \"might\" work. I just hope my mom is sensible.


or:Yeah Kaitlyn, you should wait and have her tell you herself when she's ready. It isn't your place to butt in and eavesdrop. Please wait and let her tell you herself when she's ready.

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