Problem - I have been working since 15 years and was giving my pay to my single parent, since the?
... other partner left the family with 5 kids. I have my own family commitments so cannot contribute but my siblings dont talk to me because of this.
... other partner left the family with 5 kids. I have my own family commitments so cannot contribute but my siblings don't talk to me because of this. I feel bad they cannot accept my decision and have branded me the bad son. They don't contact me for that reason. I know my single parent plays the pokies and lives well but when I do visit her, I pay her bills / buy groceries or spend money on her. I lost my job 4 months ago but every time I get in contact with her, its all about her expenses with disregard to my financial commitments or my families wellbeing. She does not try anything to bring her kids together, let alone taking care of my kids in return. Its all take , take from her side. As a result, my siblings don't keep me in their lives no longer. I have been attending to my younger sibllings since I was 15 and today, they keep away from me and my mum does not do anything to bring us together. I am a quiet person who will not say things to family members and for that reason, my other siblings find it easy to say things to me. I don't know what to do as there seems no end to this situation in my family
or:... other partner left the family with 5 kids. I have my own family commitments so cannot contribute but my siblings don't talk to me because of this. I feel bad they cannot accept my decision and have branded me the bad son. They don't contact me for that reason. I know my single parent plays the pokies and lives well but when I do visit her, I pay her bills / buy groceries or spend money on her. I lost my job 4 months ago but every time I get in contact with her, its all about her expenses with disregard to my financial commitments or my families wellbeing. She does not try anything to bring her kids together, let alone taking care of my kids in return. Its all take , take from her side. As a result, my siblings don't keep me in their lives no longer. I have been attending to my younger sibllings since I was 15 and today, they keep away from me and my mum does not do anything to bring us together. I am a quiet person who will not say things to family members and for that reason, my other siblings find it easy to say things to me. I don't know what to do as there seems no end to this situation in my family
