Problem - I want to get rid of my MIL . Please help?

She always creates quarrels at home. She spoils a cordial atmosphere at home. She tries to bring in a fight between me and my husband. or:She always c

She always creates quarrels at home. She spoils a cordial atmosphere at home. She tries to bring in a fight between me and my husband.

or:She always creates quarrels at home. She spoils a cordial atmosphere at home. She tries to bring in a fight between me and my husband.

or:In laws can be problematic. There seems to be a particular source of tension between and wife and her mother-in-law as there is some conflict in terms of who is supposed to be looking after the husband. In reality, neither should do it and a man should look after himself, but women often do portray themselves in the role of nurturer and emotional provider.To try to play devil's advocate and see your mother-in-law's point of view, she's probably not feeling very useful any more (with a grown-up child or children) and may even see you as the person who usurped her role. Completely unfair, of course, but it happens.How you deal with it is the key thing. I never saw much peace break out between my mother and her mother-in-law. My mother just got upset about it but didn't tackle it. However you choose to approach it, be sensitive. You have a family and husband. Your mother-in-law's has been partially dismantled and she could be feeling very sensitive about it. Do you have kids, by the way? That's when mother-in-laws come into their own. They can take temporary charge of the kids (and so feel useful again) and it can give you and your husband a break.

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