Sex - My "friend" and I?

My 14 year old "friend" and I (13) were playing basketball and football with his friends. Everything was great. After three hours of basketball, I got

My 14 year old "friend" and I (13) were playing basketball and football with his friends. Everything was great. After three hours of basketball, I got a killer headache and we all went in the house to get some food. My dad came to pick me and my brothers up, so we went into the woods to find them. You know boys, always exploring.. :P Anyway, on the way to the lake he was asking me personal questions about my privates and what they looked like, if I shaved them, if I had had my period yet, etc. I found these kind of personal but I shrugged them off. After we got back to the house, I had to pee so I went to the bathroom. When I came out and went to get my stuff, he showed me his private parts. Then he was getting really awkward and kept asking me if I wanted to have sex. I was done with that stuff (after all, I am not having sex until I am married and I am too young anyway) so I left without saying goodbye to him. I don't feel comfortable around him anymore, and don't think the same way about him anymore. I have never thought about him being any more than a friend to me, after all, I have my crush to look forward to. He is the only one that has ever stood out to me. What should I do to tell him to back off/I'm not interested?

or:My 14 year old \"friend\" and I (13) were playing basketball and football with his friends. Everything was great. After three hours of basketball, I got a killer headache and we all went in the house to get some food. My dad came to pick me and my brothers up, so we went into the woods to find them. You know boys, always exploring.. :P Anyway, on the way to the lake he was asking me personal questions about my privates and what they looked like, if I shaved them, if I had had my period yet, etc. I found these kind of personal but I shrugged them off. After we got back to the house, I had to pee so I went to the bathroom. When I came out and went to get my stuff, he showed me his private parts. Then he was getting really awkward and kept asking me if I wanted to have sex. I was done with that stuff (after all, I am not having sex until I am married and I am too young anyway) so I left without saying goodbye to him. I don't feel comfortable around him anymore, and don't think the same way about him anymore. I have never thought about him being any more than a friend to me, after all, I have my crush to look forward to. He is the only one that has ever stood out to me. What should I do to tell him to back off/I'm not interested?

or:I totally feel you. I am your age and i know alot of a$$holes that are exactly like that. Just say this \u201cf*ck off you freakin pervert!\u201d. Then he will get the message. Bro, don\u2019t shrug it off he is disrespecting you.

or:Tell him you are not interested in sex and you are too young. Tell him you aren't allowed to do it also. Tell him you are not the type of person you thought he would be or you aren't comfortable with him.

or:you should tell him how you feel. tell him that you are a little too young for that, and that he wasn't what you thought he was. tell him that you can do it when you are older, but for right now, you guys are just friends. tell him that you are kind of uncomfortable thinking about him, but, tell him somewhere you feel comfortable and where you can get help immediately from somebody. tell him that the day you saw his dick that you felt uncomfortable looking at it, and that you now think of him as something different, and something way more inappropriate than you ever thought of him before.

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