Should I move?
So right now I live with my retired dad in the housing projects. I work part time and Im going to college full time and I moved here 3 years ago. I do
So right now I live with my retired dad in the housing projects. I work part time and I'm going to college full time and I moved here 3 years ago. I don't really have close friends here besides my coworkers. I don't really like my surroundings but I try to stay positive but I guess I feel alone here. I just work and go to school but I been feeling lately I wanted a change. I'm not liking my major at school but I'm determining to finish. My mom has offered for me to live with her Long Island in her condo with her boyfriend. I'm just not sure because I have never actually lived with my mom or a man other than my dad. So it's just a little strange for me and I might feel uncomfortable. On the other hand I don't do much stuff because my dad doesn't want me coming home late because it is dangerous where I live. So I literally work near my house and he picks me up and drives me everywhere and I feel like a kid but I know it's for my safety. Also housing raises your rent the more hours you work so I've been trying to work hard and save more money but they are just hiking up the rent. That my dad is having trouble paying it and he always tells me not to worry and don't pay the difference because I'm his child and I'm doing the right thing by going to college and working. It just makes want to cry because I really do want to help but he says no just save your money don't pay to live in this horrible place. So I have been so torn if I just stay here and suck it up or just go because my dad wants to so badly go to Florida to live with my sister because he loves Florida and being there with my nephews. I know the only reason he stays here is because I'm in school. I'm only junior in college but I plan on getting my masters so there is so much more school and I fear that by me staying it's hurting both of us. If anyone has advice I would love it. Thank you.
or:So right now I live with my retired dad in the housing projects. I work part time and I'm going to college full time and I moved here 3 years ago. I don't really have close friends here besides my coworkers. I don't really like my surroundings but I try to stay positive but I guess I feel alone here. I just work and go to school but I been feeling lately I wanted a change. I'm not liking my major at school but I'm determining to finish. My mom has offered for me to live with her Long Island in her condo with her boyfriend. I'm just not sure because I have never actually lived with my mom or a man other than my dad. So it's just a little strange for me and I might feel uncomfortable. On the other hand I don't do much stuff because my dad doesn't want me coming home late because it is dangerous where I live. So I literally work near my house and he picks me up and drives me everywhere and I feel like a kid but I know it's for my safety. Also housing raises your rent the more hours you work so I've been trying to work hard and save more money but they are just hiking up the rent. That my dad is having trouble paying it and he always tells me not to worry and don't pay the difference because I'm his child and I'm doing the right thing by going to college and working. It just makes want to cry because I really do want to help but he says no just save your money don't pay to live in this horrible place. So I have been so torn if I just stay here and suck it up or just go because my dad wants to so badly go to Florida to live with my sister because he loves Florida and being there with my nephews. I know the only reason he stays here is because I'm in school. I'm only junior in college but I plan on getting my masters so there is so much more school and I fear that by me staying it's hurting both of us. If anyone has advice I would love it. Thank you.
