So I am in need of some serious advice. My wife and I have 7 children together (her 5 from a?
... previous marriage, and 2 between us. I opened my heart to all of her children 5 years ago when they aged from 1-5. I love them as if i created th
... previous marriage, and 2 between us. I opened my heart to all of her children 5 years ago when they aged from 1-5. I love them as if i created them. They call me Dad and see no difference in the fact that Im their step dad. We, together, are as real and full of love as any other family could possibly be. I was at the time when we met in the Marine Corps and have since then gotten out. Most people would say that there would be no way that we would make it as a family and that i, only being 23 years old could not support a family this size and lead a normal life. Well i have yet to prove any of the nay Sayers right in fact we now have a 5 br 2900 sq ft house and don't miss a single bill. The kids are doing great in school and my 6 year old is skipping 1st grade. we are in my eyes doing it right.... OK so now for the point of this whole post, my wife has this since of needing to feel accomplished. She feels like being a mother of 7 isn't enough. she feels like she needs to be making the money for the house. she feels like here part in the relationship is just minor and that she needs to be more recognized for being a successful person. The amount of love the kids and i give to her just isn't enough for her. She has been doing/ coming up with every excuse as to why she needs to be doing something with her life, as if taking care of 7 kids during the day while im at work isn't enough. Not to mention i hold 2 jobs , the 2nd is so i can take them out some times and give them things i didn't get coming up. She doesn't clean, when she cooks she leaves a huge disgusting mess that she makes the kids clean, she has gained a !@@#$@ load of weight and is 24/7 nagging complaining, *itching , and screaming at everyone. Her fuse is easily lit and very short. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. Im as simple as they come, as long as i can pay my bills and can have a relationship with God and make it to the gym im perfectly happy. I don't mind cleaning.. but i absolutely refuse to cook.. reason being is if i cook the kids wouldn't be getting dinner until 11 pm each night seeing as how that's when i get off from my second job. She is always asking me for advice as to help her get over this slump to get out of the gutter.... of which she has been in for quite some time now, but when i give my most pleasing answer for her fragile ears she instantly shuts down and says im full of shit and refuses to hear what i have to say, i will even lay there and wait patiently for her to calm down and try again but she always shuts me out and then she lays down and goes to sleep. I FEEL LIKE SHE HAS BECOME POSSESSED BY SOME SCARY WITCH DEMON SHIT AND I DON'T DO THE WHOLE DEMON DEVIL EXERCISER STUFF........ADVICE PLEASE
or:... previous marriage, and 2 between us. I opened my heart to all of her children 5 years ago when they aged from 1-5. I love them as if i created them. They call me Dad and see no difference in the fact that Im their step dad. We, together, are as real and full of love as any other family could possibly be. I was at the time when we met in the Marine Corps and have since then gotten out. Most people would say that there would be no way that we would make it as a family and that i, only being 23 years old could not support a family this size and lead a normal life. Well i have yet to prove any of the nay Sayers right in fact we now have a 5 br 2900 sq ft house and don't miss a single bill. The kids are doing great in school and my 6 year old is skipping 1st grade. we are in my eyes doing it right.... OK so now for the point of this whole post, my wife has this since of needing to feel accomplished. She feels like being a mother of 7 isn't enough. she feels like she needs to be making the money for the house. she feels like here part in the relationship is just minor and that she needs to be more recognized for being a successful person. The amount of love the kids and i give to her just isn't enough for her. She has been doing/ coming up with every excuse as to why she needs to be doing something with her life, as if taking care of 7 kids during the day while im at work isn't enough. Not to mention i hold 2 jobs , the 2nd is so i can take them out some times and give them things i didn't get coming up. She doesn't clean, when she cooks she leaves a huge disgusting mess that she makes the kids clean, she has gained a !@@#$@ load of weight and is 24/7 nagging complaining, *itching , and screaming at everyone. Her fuse is easily lit and very short. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. Im as simple as they come, as long as i can pay my bills and can have a relationship with God and make it to the gym im perfectly happy. I don't mind cleaning.. but i absolutely refuse to cook.. reason being is if i cook the kids wouldn't be getting dinner until 11 pm each night seeing as how that's when i get off from my second job. She is always asking me for advice as to help her get over this slump to get out of the gutter.... of which she has been in for quite some time now, but when i give my most pleasing answer for her fragile ears she instantly shuts down and says im full of shit and refuses to hear what i have to say, i will even lay there and wait patiently for her to calm down and try again but she always shuts me out and then she lays down and goes to sleep. I FEEL LIKE SHE HAS BECOME POSSESSED BY SOME SCARY WITCH DEMON SHIT AND I DON'T DO THE WHOLE DEMON DEVIL EXERCISER STUFF........ADVICE PLEASE
or:well women get that way i think she feels she needs to be contributeing something or she doesn't feel whole which everything thats going on in her life isn't enough have you ewver thought mabe she would like to go back to school i don't know if she has any skills but even something part time should bring her out of her shell mabe some encouraging words about how you think she is doing i think the kids need to learn about home maker skills which wouldn't hurt them to learn but i would think about part time work or going to school it might help bring her out of the rut she is in
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