What do you say to someone on their b-day right after there is a death of a close family member?

The person is young and the death was that of a father and was very unexpected. or:The person is young and the death was that of a father and was very

The person is young and the death was that of a father and was very unexpected.

or:The person is young and the death was that of a father and was very unexpected.

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