What people really want ?

I was in a relation with a girl for 18 months then i dumped her without any reason (i know thats bad ) and she was always begging me for a patchup aft

I was in a relation with a girl for 18 months then i dumped her without any reason (i know thats bad ) and she was always begging me for a patchup after two months we patched up then we had a great fight on our first date (reason :i was talking to other girls ) after two days she called me and asked for patchup once again .i said no and then again she starting begging ( it was a real begging ) after six months i realized that i was somehow wrong i apologized and asked for a patchup she obviously said no this time but since three months she is still in contact with me but in very disgusting way ,always asks me stupid questions and stupid convo. And when i ask for a relation or it comes to me she just turns into a real "B****" starts insulting me and treats me like an ass i dont know is she just taking revenge (but sometime she really shows care ) or what :/

or:I was in a relation with a girl for 18 months then i dumped her without any reason (i know thats bad ) and she was always begging me for a patchup after two months we patched up then we had a great fight on our first date (reason :i was talking to other girls ) after two days she called me and asked for patchup once again .i said no and then again she starting begging ( it was a real begging ) after six months i realized that i was somehow wrong i apologized and asked for a patchup she obviously said no this time but since three months she is still in contact with me but in very disgusting way ,always asks me stupid questions and stupid convo. And when i ask for a relation or it comes to me she just turns into a real \"B****\" starts insulting me and treats me like an ass i dont know is she just taking revenge (but sometime she really shows care ) or what :/


or:Yep I agree with the previous answer u are being a douche here. Look man u have to either get a hold of urself and tell her ok or if u really cant stand her then just look her in the eyes, say its OVER and not talk to her if she asks u again


or:What people want in a boyfriend? Not someone who speaks to other girls and leaves them without any reason. I've been there and it sucks! Girls want kindness, hey want commitment, they want a guy whose there, a guy who sees her but most importantly they want a guy who loves her for her. I don't think, this is going to sound harsh I know, but I don't think you can fix this. Let her move on and allow yourself to do the same. If it's meant to be it will be, just not right now. Give her her space. Stop texting her and asking her for a relationship, it's not fair on her nor is it fair on you. She's probably terrified that you'll walk out again with no warning just as you did before, if you really want her back you've got to fight for her, show her you are not going anywhere. I know I said you can't fix this but maybe you can if you put in the effort. Show up to hers with flowers. Tell her you still care and that you want her back. Promise her you aren't going anywhere and stick by that promise. If she still says no, don't call her all the names on the sun, respect her decision and move on with your life and let her do the same.


or:You cant be a douche bag first off. She likes you obviously and she wants you to be her hitta so man up and take her back. Every girl likes to feel wanted so make her feel special and wanted. Don't break up for no reason after an year and a half relationship, thats really shitty honestly.


or:every one wants to be wanted and liked.even by people we dont care abouteven more by people we once cared about.its confusing and always will be.burn your bridges and never look backyou cant fix your mistakes after the fact

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